Attracted to married man at work

I have the same problem with my boss. I said to him that I was willing to be the other woman to him but only if his wife agrees with him on having an other woman. I waited for 3 years patiently to get her permission. But still she doesn’t allow me to live with him or them. I am allowed to visit and stay with them when their children are away. She loves him so much and that is what made her agree with him to accept me partially. He and I are not allowed to have sex anywhere except when I visit them. We are ok now.

First of married men are off limits, and work relationships are just way too much drama. Spare yourself future pain, stay away.

You should not even be asking this question. He is a married man. That means he has a wife and possibly a family. Are you that much of a drama queen that you would be the one to try and ruin that?

Listen to what you just said. “I am attracted to a married man at work…”

That alone should have the answer.

Lets simplify it even more. “Attracted to a married man”

Hes married. So dont get involved. Wait, and you will find your own man. Whom someday you may marry…your fairy tale isnt over yet. Dont meffle with someone elses fairy tale. Be patient. ; )

You need to just keep those feelings to yourself!

well, first you should post this question in the appropriate category. second, grow up. have empathy for his wife and children, if he has any. third, if he cheats on his wife, he will also cheat on you.

If you like to be looked apon as “the other women” go right ahead be the w-h-o-r-e at work. You are looking at a dead end- relationship wise- if he is will to do sumtin behind his wifes back do you really think you mean anything to him besides a peices of meat!!?? I am sure you are smarter then that!

Men of all shapes sizes colors good men and bad men that includes men in relationships all like to look at women,,, they are all drivin by what they see,,, im sure you are not the only girl they look at this way.

My advice “Dont start playing a game that you will NEVER win”

I had the same issue as well.. I believe a majority of single ladies that are attracted to married men are attracted to the fact: THAT HES MARRIED ie: A husband , A provider, A man who has made a commiment…something that single women dont have.

I was crushing on a married man and I was mature enough to distance myself from him until I reflected on myself, I had to do some serious soul searching. We all deserve our OWN happy ending and fairytale and not potentally ruin someone elses,

Now I understand there just feelings its natural to be attracted to someone but the key is to realize they are not for you.