What sould I do my boyfriend is 17 and im 13?

First of all, the reason people have such a problem with that big of an age gap is because the difference in expeience and expectations. If you flip the age gap around, imagine you dating a 9 year old. There are definitely emotional differences there. Its wonderful that your guy isnt pressuring you, but I have to question any 17 year old guys intentions if he is dating a 13 year old. Second, having sex changes things in a relationship. Personally, I think 13 is a little young to know what you really want. The choice is up to you, but I would at least wait til you two were together for a few months. If he is really not using you, he shouldnt have an issue with that.

I see your problem but its the same as me I have a boyfriend that was 17 and now hes 18 and I was 13 when I met him but now im 14 we have almost a year going out lol. so the first time we were gonna have sex I was scared I was gonna get pregnant so I just trusted my instincts and went for it ,everything went ok so if you planning on having sex with him remember use a condom unlike me I didnt ,so just use 1 for you sake ok hopefully this helps any more questions send me a message

I know for a fact he doesnt have a problem hes waited for awhile already… everytime it comes up when we msg now he always asks if im sure im ready for this…

Follow your heart and who cares what other people think It only matters what you think If you truely love thhis guy dont break his heart.

no because while you might not feel young in reality you are 13 and its illegal for you to have sex with him he can be sent to jail and charged with rape if the relationship is going to last, and he doesnt just want to use you for sex he would wait untill your 18-18 and at least legal also remember to actually LEARN about sex before you go off having it because at your age I doubt youve even been taught sex education learn about as well as a male and female reproductive system birth control, contraception, pregnancy and sti/stds don’t have sex until you know the consequences involved with it because the main reason why kids and teens get pregnant and/or get stds is because of a lack of sex education