What shoulf I tell him friday when I see him?

Well right now I am talking about my boyfreind. Ok on sunday I spent the entire day at his house. When I reached, he told me that he felt sleepy and that he was tired. So I told him that I was going to leave him to rest and he replied that it is still good if I stay. We were playing together. I was playing with his sisters and lil couzins. So then this girl was passing by and one of his lil sisters went to talk with her. Afterwards he told me he has to go and talk to his friend, so he went. He took about and hour talking to her. I was already getting tired of waiting, so I went inside his house. I asked his lil sister who is the girl and she said her name is carolina. I know he had told me she was his ex but I didnt know her in person. Then it turned out that she is his ex. After an hour or less he came inside. I felt horrible maybe becuase of my jelousy but I didnt do a big scene. We started to talk and he seemed really different. He was more happy and his sleepiness was gone. He told me that he never broke up with her and that she just went to another country and by time he forgot her. He told me that she is like his best friend. Gosh I felt stupid but yea he said he still loves me and he only likes her like a friend. What do you think that I should do when we see each other again? Should I ask him if he wants her back? Should I let him be free with her? I mean if he loves me not,then why should I be keeping him back..tell me what you would do if you were me? Thanks

Answer #1

k well now friday came but I didnt see him. he didnt go to my house. how bad it can get? lol anyways I will still talk to him whenever I see him. arrrgg…now its getting me angry but nimodos…so whats up with you?

Answer #2

Omg sorry I never replied. I forgot to check if you said anything back. bit too late now :O Well atleast you seem better :) x

Answer #3

ok sure I will talk to him this friday. actually you know I feel a lil different today. in thefact that if he likes her still then I should not afraid to lose him because life is unfolding itself to me. I will be patient and see who I will really love. I do love the guy but I cant be with someone who likes another. thanks to you all for giving me such great advices!

Answer #4

Well he doesnt like her but she is just really obsessed and weird.. and she only ever talks to me if its about him and comments on how cute he is in our pics and things.. like I go to barding school and she is here so she comes to see me and it gets to the point that im crying on the phone to him. And he wont do anything about it but I cant talk to my ex’s and things but I guess love hurts and it will be worth it in the end. I think you should try to talk to him still and tell him you want nothing but the truth. =) x

Answer #5

He may like her again, the only thing is that maybe hes trying to find a way out? I dont wanna make you worry at all, but like it goes like this, say Im your boyfriend and we’re dating and I had to let go of the person I loved before, all of the sudden I see the person I was once in love with, of course I’m going to have feelings for her, and I’d be excited to see her, I mean say it was a couple of months, it would be like a reunion, it just depends if he’s happier with you or her, dont worry so much, but if worse comes to worse let it be there’s always more fish in the sea.

Answer #6

ok thanks I will try it and see what happens. oh and you know what he asked me if I have feelings for one of my ex and I told him no because it is the truth but it seemed that he wanted me to tell him yes. I didnt ask him but I believe he does but anyways. what happen to your boyfriend? he likes his ex or she likes him?? I mean why is it so hard to find someone that is good enough for us? well I fear a lot, I know that this will break us up but thats life. gosh I feel so bad…thanks once again.. please write back!

Answer #7

just tell him how you feel and how you feel about him and that you listened to what he said about his ex but you want reassurance that he likes you and not because you dont listen or anything like that but because you want to make sure whether he does actually want to be with you. Say to him that you are only saying this because you want to know what he wants and whats best for both of you. If you stay with him then you will always have a bit of jealousy over her because its the same with me but my bfs ex is like obbsessive so its really hard on me. Basically you tell him everything you feel and say that because you trust him so much with your feelings that you wanted to talk to him about it and want to make sure he is happy. Sorry im like repeating myself but im just trying to help as best I can =) x

Answer #8

no problem =) x Im always here for anything =)x

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