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What should I do? Time to move on or not?

ok so I’m in a relationship right now I’ve been dating this guy for almost a year now and I love him and he loves me but lately I’ve been gravitating toward this other guy and I think it’s a sign that me and my current boyfriend should just give it a break and experience other people. The problem is I don’t know how to go about ending it because he really loves me and just recently we had an argument about the guy I mentined above and he stormed out saying we were over. After a while we worked the whole thing out and got back together but I can’t ignore the feeling I’ve had ever since it happened I feel that we shouldn’t have got back together but now that we are I don’t know how to end it because at this age you can’t be in a super serious relationship you have to go out and be a teen! But I’m scared that if I break it off with my boyfriend that he’s going to freak out and beat up this other guy but I’m not leaving him for the this other guy I’m doing it because we need to go out and be young. Am I wrong to think this? And how can I go about this without the sh*t hitting the fan? PLEASE HELP!!!

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Answer #1

First things first, you can go out and be a teen with or without a boyfriend, the only thing being single does is give you the freedom to hook up with whoever, whenever. Secondly you are already confused because the other guy grabbed your attention so naturally you feel you shouldn’t have gotten back with your boyfriend until you had really found out how you feel about the other guy, BUT the grass is NOT always greener on the other side. Be sure you want to break up, because it happens a lot, to a lot of people and once you break up with him and start dating someone else, he won’t come back, and then when he is dating someone and you want him back, it’s going to be too late, you ALWAYS want what you can’t have. So all I gotta say is make sure you are ready to end your relationship before doing so because you could end up regretting it.

Answer #2

I went out with the same girl for three years and now shes gone I regret it but at the same time im only 19 and I need to have fun.. dont dump your boyfriend for some other guy don’t tell him that and make sure you think long and hard about it. the one thing you should never do is break up with some one you love for another guy you are attracted to but know nothing about. In the end you make yourself sad comparing your x to your present. it should be for the reason something has changed ,is not going anywhere. you need to let him off easy don’t be friends that never works. just be single its more fun and its easier and as a teen you have your frineds to keep you from bein lonly

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