Everything was going well and now it's gone

Well I thought I was going out with a guy because his whole family would call me his girlfriend and everything was going great between us, he even made out with me and he was such a gentlemen! but then he came to my area and I was drinking and we walked in a differant direction from everyone else and he told me he didnt want to be tide down in a relationship then he told everyone we wernt even going out…the thing is I broke up with my ex boyfriend now to be with him and he knew that and I thought I loved this guy I broke up with for 4 years…now hes not returning my calls and im not sure if hes even comfortable hanging out with me but he says im a wonderful woman…I want him to be with me and I know I cant force him to be with me, any ideas? guys it would be nice of you to let me know why you think he did this and now doesnt want me and what you would like a girl to do to show you how much she cares…females can answer to if they have been in a situation like this…please help! everythings was going so good and now it feels like its all gone

Answer #1

OMG!!! moi,the same story!!! Well, I had no idea wut 2 do so I nvr called him back because I was sooo pissed off!!! After a while I got back 2gether with my old x!! Which was a total disaster 2!!! so just 4get about him!! He’s an as*!! Find someone new!!! U’ll get over him eventually!! or you can date his brother!! Thats wut I dd!! Now he’s feeln the pain he put me thro back then!! and guess wut, His brother is awesome and soo much nicer!!

Answer #2

well im really into it my boyfriend did the same to me , it is called boys freakout. the truth is that most boys are afraid of committment and they think they would loose their freedom. but not because of that you are going to run to your ex boyfriend, if things are not working out with your boyfriend right now well. just leave him alone, and keep living for god sake. let him figure out between his confusion and if he really deserves your love, hell come back if not, well its not worth it. “not man enought for you” in my experience, I just stopped calling him, and let him do his thing, then after a week he came back saying sorry, and our relationship is stronger now. men and women are different emotionally.

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