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ok please help me I realy love this guy an he wantes me to give him hea an well I want to but im soo afraid I will chook or mes up I’ve given hea before but never to a black man nore a big 12in dic dont get me wrong I LOVE him soo much!!! an I think he is madb with me, the first time he asked if I would give him hea an I said no he got mad an had to bring up that I sck* an swallowed for a white man before I told him don’t ever bring that up again an I started to cry he told me the next day he was very sorry for getting upset an saying that an now when ever he askes an I say no he stops everything an wont kiss me or talk to me till the next day!!! I dont know what to do, please help me!!!

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Dump him. From reading this I can see that he does not care about how you feel about this situation. You are nervous and you have worries about it and you have made it perfectly clear that it is not a racist thing otherwise you wouldnt be dating him! He does not care about your feelings. Im in a relationship with my boyfriend and I was really worried about it as well. But because he loves me he said that I dont have to worry and he’ll be happy when im ready to do it but he didnt want to rush me (Even though I’ve been in a relationship before as well).He clearly only wants you because he feels he can control you by going silent and ignoring you. If he cared about you at all he would wait until YOU are ready and not himself. My advice is dump him. It will be hard but trust me girl, you deserve better. I hope this helped.

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