Should I tell Jake or Katie what happened?

Ok so im pretty much together with this guy named jake and I like him a lot. Hes 16 and im 14 which isnt that big of a deal. But yesterday I went and hung out with and old crush of mine named zach. Hes only 15 and my mom likes him better than jake. Only one problem. My friend katie likes zack. Shes like obbsesed. But she does this all the time. He doesnt like her at all. She changes boy intrests daily so I don’t know how long this obbsession is going to last, well neways while we were hanging out yesterday zack kissed me. And I didnt stop him. I still really like him. But I don’t know if I should tell jake and katie what happened. Jake doenst even like me hangin with him he would hate me if he found out. Katie I don’t know. She knows I like him but still… I don’t know what to do. Will someone pleasee help me??

Answer #1

Honestly, I think you should tell Jake, if you’re in a relationship with him, it’d be best to tell him, because even if he does say it’s over, as horrible as this sounds, you still have Zack, but that’s still not very good.

but really, you shouldn’t hide it from Jake, that’s not the best thing to do… as for Katie, it’d be better for you to tell Jake first, and if Katie finds out, tell her he alreadys knows. but you should deff tell her if she’s your friend. and deff tell Jake, tell him the truth. the truth will hurt him, but you’re being honest. that’s what’s best…

-Dani

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