Should I tell my boyfriend what happened?

I went by ex boyfriend a few days ago and we were hanging out but he was all over me, trying to touch me and hugging me up course i didnt let anything happen, thinks he still likes me . He has a girlfriend adn i have a boyfriend i did feel guilty bout him touching me should i tell my boyfriend what happened or this is one of those things u should leave out?

Answer #1

This is one of those things you need to STAY AWAY from. Your not being true to your bf by hanging out with your ex. Is there a reason why you did?

To answer your question if you should tell you bf or not……Put yourself in his shoes. What if he did the same with his ex, and didnt tell you, but somehow you found out through the grape vine? How would that make you feel about your relationship? Trust is very important. If you cant trust your partner, then you dont have a relationship in my book! You didnt hang out with just any guy..you hung out with an ex …someone you were once involved with. Someone you shared feelings with. There is a difference!

No matter what the consequences…i think you owe it to him to be open and honest.

Answer #2

i did tell my bf where i was going. I dont know why i decided to go , but i guess its cause we talk alot and stuff and this may sound foolish but i wanted to know if i still had feelings or not. and i dont feel anythign for him anymore. Like i said nothing happened that whole cheating thing aint me and yeh i guess your righti’ll tell him i wouldnt exactly be fond of the idea either if that happened to me, but at the samwe time i would trust him enough not to do anything. But thanks

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