What should I do? Im not ready for sex, but I want him to go away?

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Okay. So this guy who is like IN LOVE with me, wont leave me alone, and im sick and tired of ignoring him, because im not really a mean person..I really hate being mean to people. But anywho…This guy and me used to talk a lot, until he started telling his friends he was gna f**k me…I got really upset…but now I just wanna give him what he wants..he is 17 and im almost 15 like 2 weeks. I dont think I wanna sleep with him, but I do just wanna get him off my back..im willing to give him a blowjob…but im not going past that…I jsut I don’t know

Please help!!!

Answer #1

I am a guy and do this dont give him a blow job b.c he will jut be like yea she sucked me off last night he will say that to his friends not care who knows and tell anyone that wants to know so dont give him anything it sounds like all he wants from you is sex witch is mean

Answer #2

What No don’t do that just ignore him he obviously doesn’t love you all he wants is to have sex with you and know your thinking of giving him what he wants he is just going to use you who cares what he wants he is forcing you to do it just stay away from him and don’t give him anything but a cold shoulder.

Answer #3

Do you honestly think doing that with him will make him go away? It’ll only make him want you more! Come on now, you’re MUCH better than that girlll(:

Answer #4

Ya, definitely dont do this with him, just ignore him and even if you’re not a mean person, if he’s like, obsessing over you,tell him you just dont feel that way towards him. Plus, if you dont wanna hurt his feelings,don’t sleep with him, thats just leading him on, making him think he has a chance with you or that you love him back. So, just . .dont let him pressure you into anything.

Answer #5

get at one of his friends maybe all of his firends put him on the spot tell him to fess up if that dont work find another friend of yours or his that would be willing to break a foot off in his a$$ for assuming he had some inkling of a chance to get with you.Then pass this information along to your dad that this boy will not leave you alone and he spreading rumors around that he’s gonna have sex with me.That allows your dad to speak at his dad in a very convincing time that he will break his foot off in his a$$ if he opens his mouth

Answer #6

youve already asked this question all its going to do is make him beg you for sex even more giving him what he wants wont make him go away and have some self respect you dont give a guy a blowjob because he wont leave you alone you tell him to fck off this is the kind of situation that calls for being mean if you cant hndle this, you wont be able to handle anything ese thats worse because you wont stand up for yourself well, stand up for yourself and tell him to fck off hes not your friend if he keeps begging to f*ck you ok

Answer #7

A sharp knee to the groin might just be enough of a hint.

Answer #8

“like in luv with me” I don’t know what to say really. If you are like in luv with him too then give it to him if you like cus he is your boyfriend but if you are not in anyway in luv with him then he should go to HELL.

Answer #9

im just gunna say that you puttin out there that your gunna give him what he wants or maybe just a blowjob is tellin everyone that your beginning the slut lifestyle…way to go. come on now be smarter than that.. wtf?!

Answer #10

Ok it doesnt matter what he wants, he cannot pressure you into doing anything you dont want to do…dont be a slut stand up for yourself (:

Kaylee<3

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