What should I do about my sexulaity?

I have liked girls my entire life and I love them so much. But lately I have found myself staring at guys packages and it being a guilty pleasure. But I also stair at girls especialy when they run. Should I consider myself bisexual??? Im only 13 going on 14.

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Answer #1

Its normal to question your sexuality. Mabie at school look at guys to see if you think some of the guys are hot. I don’t know it could just be a guy crush and thats it. Its harder when your bi to find out if your bi because you can like one gender more then the other. Whatever your sexulaity its normal. Remember lables are for soup cans not people. Because your going threw changes it could be your looking at other guys and compairing their bodies to yours. Give it time. As fustrating as it can be no to know the answers will come. I use to think I was straight ( because 9 out of 10 people are you think you are to) Then because I liked gurls I thought I was a lesbian, Then in grade 6 I realized I was bi. If you ever wanna talk just inbox me, xD

Answer #2

Personally, I’m bisexual (taken boys, sorry), and in order to be truly bisexual first you have to be sexual, and unless you aren’t a virgin you shouldn’t consider yourself straight or gay or either. Go with the flow, remember that boy meets girl is how humans were designed and what we were intended for, and that homosexuality is still frowned upon by most of society, but if you find yourself getting “hard” over something erotic a boy does, maybe you have the same gene I have that makes me bisexual.

As for right now, stick to the ladies until you aren’t a virgin, then decide which you like more.

Answer #3

Right now your body is going through some massive changes, including sexual awareness and confusion, your hormones are changing, your body is beginning to produce sperm so that you can have children, etc etc. So this kind of sexual attraction in not uncommon, however at your age, you should not do anything about it, either way. Like Uberalax suggested date some girls first, see how you feel about that, later on if the feelings for boys remains powerful, you can explore that too as long as you are safe and secure in doing so.

Take Care and dont sweat it you are a normal 13-14 year old.

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