Will he still respect me if we have sex?

ok. you have been going out w/ this guy for like 7 1/2 months, and I see that you guys love eachtoher but are you guys in love w/ eachother. Because that’s a whole different story then. Does he do things that make you go awwhh your soo sweet you didn’t have to. Thats the first thing you gotta think about. And insted of just waiting for him to ask you everytime he goes oh nvm nvm its to early just be like are you about to ask me for sex? You guys have to be straight forward w/ eachother if you want it to work. Because if he is keeping it to himself and if he’s to scared to open up to you about how he feels then there is something that’s not going right. And if you think that you guys do love each other and you guys are meant for each other then he would have respect for you, and he will still want you for you (not only for sex) after. Because if you do decide to have sex and he starts treating you like nothing then thats just going to hurt you. You just need to think to yourself and ask yourself does he really treat me good, and does he do things that just amazes you, and you just really need to talk to him so that he can be more open w/ you. Because no one is gona sit here telling you not to do it or to do it, but you just got to think about everything first, then make your decision. I hope I helpd. =]

thanx everyone… I no im not ready for sex right now but I just wanted to know if he will still respect me. xtungtwistterrx he does do all those things that you mentioned ^ ^ so I do think we are in love ^ ^ and I confronted him about him talking to me more and he is trying to work on it. generally we are pretty open with each other now but it is those acational things that we are trying to work on and still after 71/2 months I still cant go a day without wanting to hear his voice ^ ^ and missing him and with him it is the same way… he called me today just to tell me that ^ ^ awww lol … well thanx again everyone ^ ^

in all honesty, you may not like this advice at all, but having been through the age and time that you have, I would really really say that you should wait until much later or atleats hold on to your virginity for as long as you can. Atleast till you hit 19 or 20. I understand everyone matures differntly but TRUST ME..you feel sooo differntly about sex and intimacy and about yourself when you truly Grow up mentally and mature some more. Moving on to your actual qUestion!..lol um I would honestly say im sure he loves you and cares abotu you.. but bringing the element of intercourse has more chances of hindering the relationship. GENERALLy males tend to mature much later than women .emotionally it may become too complex.

he should and if he doesnt hes a a*s. (like most boys)