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What should I do about my life?

I am really dissatisfied with my life. I know I don’t have to worry about food or shelter, but I’m just not happy. I am a pretty Girl. However I’m really quiet. 

I hate school because I don't like my classes (I'm in 8th grade), I have all High Achievers or advanced classes. That is one thing I don't like and it's also the people, there's a few nerdy kids, and also the preppy populars. I'm not popular I would say I'm class B or C, so I can't mix. Also I'm pretty shy so I don't stand out so I find myself not into the class anymore, and just really disliking it. So now in class all I do is write in my journal. 
Also I want a boyfriend but all the hot guys are in XL classes not HA which is mine. So now I can't find any guys, which discourages me thinking I'm not cool or that guys don't like me. The only guys that like me are super nerdy and not hot cool guys. However this guy did get into me and I got into him just to find out that he's been using me and he doesn't like me. 
I don't have many friends, however I have 2 really good ones but one doesn't go to my school. They are really lucky and I am jealous of them since they get all the guys and I am stuck with guys not likingme. Also all my friends are in the same classes, except for me so they all share the same gossip and I am left out. 
I have now lost interest in school, I have really slipped behind in my classes since I don't like them. I really want to be in XL with my friends, but my family would kill me if I drop down into the XL classes. All I really care about now is the arts, music, singing, dancing, drawing. 
I find myself hating my life and crying a lot. What should I do?
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Answer #1

hey, I was in your position for years but found ways to change.

  1. for one week just start talking to random people, it will be scary and you wont feel like it but thats what I did it it had such an impact one me. That one week can change everything.
  2. start wearing makeup. dont wear it to be fake, but wear it to give you that boost of connfidence. start with masquera(put on a lot or it wont show trust me)and lip gloss. then work your way to abit of eyeliner.
  3. when talking to people for the first time start with the more shyer people because they are easy to talk to and dont judge as much. You may not want to hang out with them but you have to work your way up.
  4. dont let not being who you want to be ruin your life. Join clubs and sports. Who cares if you suck at them. I do but I learned not to care and just make fun out of it. It gives you confidence and sothing to have in common with someone else/

REMEMBER… OBSTACLES ARE PUT IN OUR WAY TO SEE IF WHAT WE WANT IN LIFE IS WORTH FIGHTING FOR SO FIGHT FOR WHO YOU WANT TO BE AND REMBER THAT YOU ARE NOT ALONE. I WAS EXACTLEY LIKE YOU BUT I LEARNED HOW TO CHANGE. IF YOU WANT TO TALK FUNMAIL ME!!! GOOD LUCK -mel

Answer #2

Oh Hun!

dont think of that, im in the same porition as you (with the guys) all the nerds like me :( anyways its not that bad, wait for mr right :P Tell your family about yor intrests and tell them about moving classes im sure they will take into count your feelings and insperations!

Become more focused in class and make some new friends in your class, im sure if your pretty and smart you could get any guy if you put your mind to it ( :

Talk to the guys, dont be shy, guys like girls with confidence, they like the funny, smart, cute and cool girl, laugh a lot around them and go right up to them, im sure you will have them all tied around your little finger in no time! : )

Good Luck!

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