What if I hate my Stepmom?

What should I do if I hate my step mom and I cant tell my dad about it at all because he’ll just take her side??please help and do what you can and ill return the favor..=]

Answer #1

You just need to accept your differences. You’re probably just angry because you see this woman as someone intruding on your home and taking your real mother’s place. She’s a human being just like you, who acts the way she does most likely because she feels uncomfortable in your house with her new family. Make her feel more welcome. Telling on her to your father won’t solve any problems because she is his wife and of course he will take her side. I’m sure if she were to say something about you to him, he would take your side. He probably just doesn’t want to get caught in the middle. Sit down and talk to her. Let her know what is bothering you. She doesn’t have to be like an actual mother to you, but she can still be your friend and a caring family member.

Answer #2

I knkow exactly how you feel. She thinks she can do anything she want. ( Which she can legally). Does she do things behind your dads back like yelling at you for somthing stupid while your dads at work mine does all the time, any time she can. But im moving out in a week or two so its all good. I have always blown her off and told my dad what she did and said. Esp when we get physical. so do the same

Answer #3

You are young and probably perceive of her as an intrusion between you and your dad.

Give her a break. It’s not her fault that your dad already had a daughter when they met and subsequently married.

Show her some respect and I’m sure she will show you respect.

Attempt to meet her halfway. Seek her womanly support when you have problems that your dad can’t deal with. Help her in being a part of the three-some to which you belong.

The more you do to try to instill harmony the happier each of the three of you Will be.

Answer #4

I didn’t like my stepmom either but I was a grown woman when she entered my life. She was evil and my Dad couldn’t see her for who she was. They say love is blind, well… He finally realized she was evil, when he learned that she tried to poison him but by then, it was too late. He passed away a few weeks later, not from the poison but from the Cancer he was dying of. You can’t really do anything to get him to turn against her or to not side with her, so long as he is blinded by love.

Answer #5

run away go to friends house move out I don’t know, why does she hate you? fun mail me

Answer #6

why do you hate her. first of all.

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