Should I try to start a new life?

What do u do when the one u love and been with 4 2 yrs doesn’t seem like they love u the same or doesn’t treat u like a boyfriend should instead prefers 2 go places with he’s friends and spent time with them rather than with you? or can’t even call u instead text msgs u I don’t want 2 love him and move on with my life but it seems like I can’t but I just don’t wanna be treated like that anymore I feel less than he’s friends even baseball but I just can’t take that anymore is 2 much and after 2 breakups he doesn’t seem like he gets it sometimes I think that he thinks that I’m going 2 be there 4 him no matter what he does or how he treats me what should I do? I need help please? I’ve thought about changing my phone # and just stop talking 2 him without telling him anything or ignore him and try 2 go out 2 and kinda try 2 forget about him I just can’t take all the crying and the way I’ve been feeling anymore :( I’ve even tried of telling my parents that I want 2 move and have a new life somewhere else I don’t know what 2 do plz I need some advice thank you!

Answer #1

I know it doesnt seem like it at the moment, but u WILL get over him. You just need to get the ball back in ur court sorta speak. The idea of u changing ur phone number, and deciding to go out attempting to get ur mind off of him, is an excellent idea. It worked for me. By changing your numbers, and not making urself available… you wont know when and if he’s NOT calling u. Sounds crazy, but it works… trust me. Dont Answer The Door, if he comes over. Even when u dont feel like getting up and going out… u get up and go anyway! The more u go out and begin enjoying life without him again, the easier it will be. Do not listen to slow songs… do not watch any love stories, movies, etc. Do what u have to do to remain in the best possible spirit and mood u are able to at all times. Recognize what makes u feel good and what makes u feel bad. Thats a rule of thumb u should follow in any situation. I can understand u wanting to move away, and thats actually what I did when I was in this situation. It’s difficult to imagine how anyone can allow another person to control the way their emotions, to control the way their day will be, but it happens. When he’s the last person u think about when u go to bed, and the first person u think about when u awake…it’s very difficult. You have to love urself first, and realize that he isnt worth ur pain!!! And the tables will turn… just give it time. Hopefully u have a support system u can rely on when u need to vent. When u pick up the phone to call or to text him… U call the “girlfriend support team “. (thats what i called my friends) lol. After a while, u will realize that u have gone an entire day WITHOUT thinking about the creep. And u’ll be well on ur way to a joyous life.. just DONT GO BACK ! If he broke ur heart once, he’ll do it again. NO SECOND CHANCES. There are more fish in the sea… GO FISHING! LOTS OF FISHING!!! LOL :- )

You will be fine… a 2 year relationship seems like the world when ur younger.. but u will look back on it, and think “ why did I give him that much of my energy?”

Avoid him at all cost… If u need additional advice u can “funmail” me.

Hopefully I’ve helped ! Good Luck and NO MORE TEARS !!!

Answer #2

OH MY GOODNESS, you are so right.

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