What shall I do- I love my boyfriend but he's a really bad kisser?

I love my boy friend to bits but he has the most slobery kiss (yuck)!! what should I do?? find some way to teach him?? I dont no im really suck and I need peoples help!!! :(

Answer #1

Try something new. Ask your partner if they would like to “try something different” but really show them how you like to be kissed. This works if you want to be subtle and not hurt your partners feelings4Set a good example. Try to kiss the person like you want to be kissed. Kissing is an interactive experience, and each partner needs to follow the other’s lead at some time. When it’s your turn to lead, make it count. This can be an especially useful technique if your partner doesn’t have much kissing experience or isn’t sure he or she is doing it right.5Give your partner signals. When your partner kisses you in a way that you really don’t like, don’t be afraid to pull away. Use body language, and hope he or she gets the hint. Even more importantly, when your partner does something you like, let him or her know. Moan softly, hold them closer, melt in his or her arms–send out signals that he or she is getting it right. Most bad kissers aren’t bad all the time, so you should have opportunities to reward them for a job well done. Keep reinforcing what you like and discouraging what you don’t, and your bad kisser may become a good kisser without you ever having to say a word about it.6Tell the person what you like. Signals aren’t working? Suppose you want your partner to kiss you more passionately. Try telling him or her that you love it when he or she kisses you like they really want you. Say it even if they don’t actually do what you like. Just telling the person what you like will reinforce that idea in his or her head. If that doesn’t work, encourage experimentation. If you see a great kiss in a movie, for example, mention that you’d really like to try kissing like that. Be as specific as you feel you need to be.7Have a talk. When subtle hints fail, it’s time to bring it out in the open. This is an uncomfortable talk to have, but if you care about the relationship you have to do it, for both of you. Communication is essential to any relationship, so don’t be afraid to tell the person how you feel. Be tactful about it, though, and compliment your partner on what he or she does right. Don’t make blanket statements. Instead, address specific issues so that your partner will know you’re not just being mean and so he or she can actually work on improving and you can try telling him the thing that you like when someone kisses u

Answer #2

lol same thing happen to me with my first true love lol even though he was a bad kisser I still found it cute because it was him… for your problem teach him how to kiss duh lol be like baby I want to teach you some new tricks or just dont use tongue.

Answer #3

who cares about his lips see what else he is good at =)

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