Tell my boyfriend I love my ex

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 9 months now and I have an ex named Harry. (Harry is in jail now for rape and drug dealing), But before he went to jail him and my boyfriend talked and now jesse (my boyfriend) hates him. which is understandable because harry hit me …a lot when we were dating and after we broke up. but anyways, jesse said to stop talking to him but I still love harry and I dont want to so I secretly keep visiting harry in jail and stuff and I feel really bad for not telling jesse because I know hes in love with me and I love him sooo much too. but im still not 100% over harry. im in love with two guys (I love jesse more tho =]) and …I don’t know what to do. I cant stop visiting harry because I would feel so like…useless and empty sort of but I feel bad for keeping that secret from jesse…I dont know what to do. and im NOT breaking up with jesse just because im not over harry yet. I love jesse more and I dont ever want to lose him

Answer #1

If you really love jesse, you have to stop seeing harry. I undstand that you were in love with him, but he hit you. There is not excuse for that. In this case you need to love yourself. It’s not about what you want, it’s what you deserve. The more you see him, the more you will start liking him again.

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