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Whats wrong with me and him messing around after this?

Okay so my dad and his girlfriend have been together for about 2yrs. now she has a son whos(17) a daughter whos(21) and my dad has me(17) and my sister whos(23) … so her son and I just started to actually talk and get to know each other other than hey and hi so saturday march 27th we decided to mess around not sex or a bj(eww) but he fingered me and I rubbed him off down there and then we sat and watched tv..talked somemore and text messaged other people. so sunday I got grounded for being in his room. breaking curfew. and going over lisa(the girlfriend’s) house cause it was raining and I hate driving in the rain. so he didn’t get in any kind of trouble but 3 days after I got grounded by my dad for the first time since I came to live with him he let me off the hook for medical reasons. so my question is would it be stupid if we messed around again but not sex. he isn’t a virgin and I told him that he isn’t the one I want to give my virginity to at all and he understands that. so would it be stupid for us to do that? if not how could we do it without getting caught? any suggestions? thanks.

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Answer #1

Well…I think you should do it…because if your dad plans on getting married …he’s like your step brother or something…But whatver you feel is right.

Answer #2

Well, you’re not related, and your dad and his girlfriend aren’t living together, so for the two of you to get together isn’t so weird. I mean, the fact that your dad and his mom are close opens a door for their children (you and this boy) to get to know each other.

I think you got grounded because you were late, right? Not because of where you were…

But are you messing around just because?? Is there any feelings there? If not, why bother?

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Answer #3

This is a little weird…A

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