If you knew the truth about something, would you say it?

I’ll try to keep this short.. There’s this guy I had feelings for, he said he loved me, wanted to be with me, etc.. He’s also my best friend.. but it seems like he kind of played me.. he ended up having a girlfriend, and led me on until I got smart.

Anyway, stuff happened between me and him, somebody told the girlfriend, he says it’s a lie, so now she’s begging me to tell her the truth…

He’s telling me no.. and I know if I DO tell the truth, I’ll lose him as a friend.. but I can’t stand lying.. I feel like she deserves to know, but I don’t want to be the one to start problems. And he’s really important to me (friend-wise)

What do I do? :(

Answer #1

well just be best friends because I done the same shit too lol

Answer #2

u have 2 just let her know hun dats da only thing 2 do, and if he stops talkin 2 you then proly wasnt a good friend but just tell her and dont lie :) hope things go well hun

Answer #3

Well if he is your truth friend, a truth friend will under stand,but if not though,he is not a very good friend at all,my friend,also the reson why I said that was that the same thing happen too me too.

Answer #4

he played you, he went with you while he had a girlfreind he disrespected his girlfriend and cheated on her so just think of what he could do to you if you were actually with him hes not a friend if he keeps his own girlfriend a secret from you hes just a player tell his girlfriend what you know that way at least she doesnt have to go on being in a relationship with a lying guy

Answer #5

He played you.. It hurts to know this but he doesn’t seem like a real friend anyways if he would do that to you. Come clean to his girlfriend and explain to her what happened.

Answer #6

You say he played you, he led you on, and now he is someone who you KNOW is a LIAR… and THIS is someone that you say is a “friend”??? You need to get a new definition of friendship.

I wouldn’t go talking about what happened just to get the guy busted, but if the girl is asking you a direct question, then you should answer her honestly. Your honesty and integrity are worth a lot more than a so-called friendship with a guy like that.

Answer #7

She WILL tell him you told her, regardless of what she may say to you about keeping it between you two she will need to back up her evidence. I wouldn’t tell her, I would tell her that it’s her boyfriend she needs to figure out her problems and that you don’t want to be involved. You two are best friends (you and the guy) and probably were LONG before she entered the picture, you have to realize who is more important to you. I am not saying lie for him either, just remove yourself from the situation and tell her to ask her boyfriend about it if she wants to know the truth, it’s not your place to have to tell her. He should have been truthful with her in the first place and took the consequences that HE created. Then just move on to the next guy because obviously he lied to you too, what kind of friend is that?

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