Hi guys,
Dont worry if you cant help me , I dont understand it at times either. When I was in highschool I got the impression that was being laughed at and used, that still lives on with me now and in college sometimes I feel like that..I.e ( I dont feel apart of the group) I dont like feelin that way but I cant seem to let it go
:( xx Hellp ??? X
either find another group or just let it go, I'm in high school and I feel like that sometimes but I force myself to think: I dont care what they think about me I'm comfortable with what I'm doing!! and they like me and I like them and everything's great! just open up and talk dont be quiet when you sit with people, people talk to people who look "interested" but if you dont bother to, then dont expect anything from anyone... though sometimes I still feel like that, but com'mon! we all do sometimes... it could be us feeling bad inside thinking it's them :) hope I helped, and I feel like I got the question wrong, but I tried :) though explain if I "did" get it wrong :W
Find another group, or just be on your own for a while, it can be relaxing. Find something you love to do and do it, the people who love it to will understand and you'll have something in common. In the real world people have their work group, their friends, family and their hobby groups. Diversify and suddenly you'll find yourself feeling popular or at least like there are people who aren't necessarily all friends to back you up if one group messes with you.
I feel that way to it it jsut you think they are but they might not be laughing at you
