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What if I have herpes how do I tell a future boyfriend?

In my second sexual relationship I was transmitted the least spreadable type of herpes and havnt had a recurrence in 2 years, in which I havnt had another relationship as I am scared of what he might think. please help me im getting desperate

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Answer #1

well you can of course meet the guy and wait till the second or third date or when ever you get to know eachother better you could tell him and if he really cares or if hes that kind of guy he’ll understand

Answer #2

Even though you haven’t had any reocurrances you can still give it to him. You need to tell him, sit him down and tell him you have something important to tell him. Make sure you have information or brochures on the herpes you have. This way he knows exactly what it is because a lot of people just freak out about any type of STD. If he loves you enough he will understand and stay with you. There are precautions you can take I’m sure. Good luck, this is a biggie!

Answer #3

you are obligated to tell him, if he’s any kind of man he won’t judge you

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