What if he kissed me and I didn't let him?

I understand that you have your religious views but I think that waiting to kiss a guy until your married is taking absinece to an extreme. of coarse kissing can lead to other things but you have a voice and if you find yourself in a situation that completley goes against your religious and moral values than all you have to say is no. your the first person I’ve ever known to wait until marriage to kiss somebody. its just a kiss and anyways how can you know you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody if you never kiss them therefore never find out if you two have any chemistry. if your with somebody you really care about a kiss won’t hurt…but anywho…the guy sounds great and it seems like you really like him to…so why wouldn’t you want to kiss him? if you ask I’m sure he shares the same religious values as you and even if he doesn’t if he cares about you he should be willing to respect your boundries and make sure a kiss never turns into something more…so next time you get a chance I say just kiss him girl!!:) but since you didnt kiss him hes probably really confused. your sending him mixed signals. he thought you were into like that but then you didnt kiss him so a million things are probably going through his head right now. he could think that you just want to be friends and that he totally grossed you out when he went for a kiss. he might think he offended you and ruined your guys friendship. he might think he had really bad breathe:) ha…if you really care about him and he you then you need to talk to him about it and answer the questions he has soon before you end up ruining your twos relationship and losing such a great guy:) he seems really great…I still say you should just kiss em:)