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What does this mean for my relationship with my boyfriend?

Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 2 months and we are very close and very serious. Hes a really great boyfriend, except for one tiny habit. he doesn’t fallow through. He says he’s going to call and then he doesnt, and worse he says hes going to pick me up from school and then doesnt. Mostly he just forgets or he makes up some excuse I dont know what the real reason is. I finally got fed up with it when one day he said he was going to pick me up from school and I ended up walking to his house cause he never came. To make it worse, he wasnt home so I had to call and find out that he was at a friends house. I don’t know if he forgot or if he just didn’t care. What does this mean for our relationship? I talked to a couple people and my friend kyle said that if he really loved me he wouldn’t be doing this, and other people said that just because hes like this doesnt mean he doesnt love me. No matter what anyone says I know he loves me but I’m afraid that this problem will mean that we aren’t going to make it forever… I’m 14 by the way and hes 15

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ok, my husband was like this when we first started dating. He was 19 and I was 18 at the time. He was always ditching me, not showing up etc etc. So I started treating him the same way. He didn’t like it either and started keeping his promises. For you I would say that your both really young and at 15 he’s probably not that into relationships yet. I’d say give him time and he’ll come around.

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