What do you think of this situation?

I’ve been talking to this guy I met online a long while back, we met once back when the relationship started and talked on the phone a lot, but after we went out that day, he stopped talking to me, but he’d text every once in a while. I asked him about this the onther day, but he said he was really busy, I believe him. Now, we talk a lot and he even asked me to be his girlfriend about 2 or 3 weeks ago. But…I’m not sure if he likes me like he says he does. For one, I don’t think I’m that pretty, I’m dieting and losing weight (doing good on that) and whenever he calls me, he’s either at work or on his way home and whenever he gets home, he has to go. I think it has to do with that he’s muslim and doesn’t want anyone to know about me b/c of his religon, but my mom thinks he’s married (lol) or maybe just my insecurities. I don’t know…what do you think? does he like me like he says he does and/or do you think something else is going on? it’s making me sick worring about it.

Answer #1

Wow I think you’re being really paranoid. Quit thinking so much about the little things and think about how is he whenever he’s talking to you. He probably is busy and he wouldn’t have asked you to be his girlfriend if he didn’t want you to be. Not all guys care about looks. If a girl has a great personality it can make up for almost any terrible feature(s).

If you really want to know what’s going on them ask him in person and whenever you are both calm and relaxed and he might open up some. But if he’s like me he likes his secrets.

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