What do you think about this ex boyfriend living situation?

I currently live with my ex boyfriend, not as awkward as you’d assume. Awkward part is I still have feelings for him but im in a situation where im not sure if I should act on them or not. I’d rather not try something then make the whole living situation uncomfortable. I’ve known him forever in fact he was my elementary school crush 2nd-5th but with certain things he’s hard to read. He randomly says things like “if I were ugly would you still love me?” “is it just me or are there other guys your interested in?” He speaks about the future often as well and never just uses “I” or “You” it’s always “Us” or “We”

We’ve seen eachother every day for years and we’ve never had an arguement of any sort, we’ve never ran out of things to talk about.

We talk about everything except starting a relationship. I’m unsure of if I should even bring up the topic or not, we both have feelings for eachother but im not sure if his have shifted towards friendship. I’d rather not bring it up and have it end horribly then have to deal with living together.

Should I keep my thoughts on a relationship to myself or should I bring it up?

Answer #1

I would bring it up, cause if you dont, your left with that shitty “what if” question and it will play with your mind for years. I had the same situation happen to me a couple times and I screwed them all up. im stupid I was like bliind, but deff try to make it something if it doesnt wrk it doesnt wrk, if it does thats great, only 1 way to find out tho

Answer #2

how did you break up int the 1st place?

has he had any other gfs since u ?

how long was you to together?

Answer #3

it sounds like you two have what a lot of couples really want [no arguments, never bored with each other] already so I would say go for it..

Answer #4

We broke up cause his mom, dad, grandpa, and uncle died so he wasn’t in any place to be in a relationship.

And no he hasn’t

and we were together quite awhile haha up in the years.

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