What do you think about this guys attitude?

I started dating this guy a month ago. We are in a long distance relationship. Sometimes he doesnt call or email me in two days and acts as everything is fine. Whenever I complain he says im being whinny and I put a lot of pressure on him. Is he being reasonable?

Answer #1

He’s not a loving boyfriend, he doesn’t communicate with you mich and you are hardly ever going to meet him.Ditch him and find someone better, someone that will treat you well.

Answer #2

Seriously, it’s only been a month and you’re already having these issues? Some people can be in long distance relationships. I dont know if you are one of them. And that is fine. Maybe it would be better to cut and run before you get even more emotionally invested.

Answer #3

if your tellin him that you dont like it how he wont tlk 4 like 2 days and he says stop whinin or wutever then hes a jerk. hes your boyfriend he should care bout your feelings. and also if he gets mad because your upset bout him not tlkin then thts not a good boyfriend you should dump him.

Answer #4

Communication is KEY with any relationship, but it becomes an even bigger factor when you’re in a long distance relationship.

No, I don’t think he’s being reasonable.

The two people involved with the relationship should ALWAYS be considerate of how the other feels. And it doesn’t sound like he’s doing that.

If you REALLY want to try to make this work, have a serious conversation about it and how it makes you feel. Tell him that things need to change if he wants the relationship to work. If nothing happens, then I’d say it’s time to leave him.

Answer #5

Well, it’s kinda hard to say, being it’s a long distance kind of relationship. I guess it depends on what you’re most comfortable with. If it really does make you uncomfortable that he won’t call you on a daily basis, maybe you shouldn’t be in this relationship. No relationship, however, should be based on only one of your guy’s needs. You have to give a little to get a little. (= If he’s not willing to make any compromises for you, then why should you for him? If that’s the case, then I vote ‘’ditch it”. (= It mean’s you deserve someone better!

Good Luck! Hope I’ve helped!!

Answer #6

No. This isn’t a healthy relationship. Long distance relationships NEED good communication. Because the only time that a long distance couple ever interacts is when they speak with one another, whether it be through phone or e-mail. It doesn’t even seem like a relationship if you barely talk to each other, and when you do talk, it’s an argument. Not he’s not being reasonable. Rethink being in this relationship.

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