I dont plan on having sex any time soon but im scared for when I do I may get pregant and that worries me a lot because that would wreck my life im 15 I know im young I dont even got a first boyfriend yet so yea im just worried about the first time of doing all that what can I do about it...
I just lost my v-card like in the summer im only 17 you dont really plan on it, it just happens it has to feel "right" dont do it if you have second thoughts. and when I first had sex, I didn't use any protection at all. (which was stupid) but I'm happy I did that because it made me feel more connected to my boyfriend, I didnt want some rubber blocking my first experience. I wanted to remember my first time as something real and special, a condom just doesnt make it feel right and real for me.. plus, it would make it seem like my first time was with a piece of rubber.. but remember.. this is my opinion.
but dont get the wrong idea, im not telling you to do the same, because thats just stupid. but right after becoming active, I went and got the morning after pill, and then started birth control to be safe.
basically, just start birth control to be extra safe, and wait for a month before you start having sex . (make sure your boyfriend gets tested for any STD like I did, if you want to be more safe)
For starters, wait until you're ready...yes everyone is going to say this to you but it's true...if you're not ready it'll hurt more, you'll be mega nervous and you probably won't enjoy it so it's really not worth it...don' do it because of peer preasure or whatever. Secondly, when you think you want to have sex go to the doctors and go on the pill. It just makes you extra safe and more relaxed =) and try to take it at exactly the same time each day (I personally set an alarm on my phone to help me remember) but you really should use condoms until you have both been checked for STIs and when you could see some sort of solution if you got pregnant. Hope this helps, feel free to funmail me if you want to talk more about it or whatever x
wait until your ready. then go to your gynocologist and tell him/her that your considering getting active and would like to know forms of protection. they will inform you of all the methods>the shot.vagina ring.pills.condoms.etc> also they will inform you about stds and to be careful. when you decide your ready to have sex with whoever that may be> go back and choose the best method of protection for you!
Sex should never scare you, it should concern you, yes. When that special someone comes along and you believe it is time, just be sure he's using protection and you are using birth control.
