Sex...? Most everyone does it before or after marriage. (mostly before) But I have a problem... Everyone at my school thinks I have had sex and when I say I haven't (but I was about to with this guy but he just wanted it an then he was going to leave me) everyone just laughs and say "ok sure" but how do I tell them I have never had sex? and another question is it bad to have sex will someone that you been with for about 4-7 months and your both around 14-15 years old?
Don't bother with what people think or say, whether you have or haven't its non of their business. Like ' vannilla702' said... theres no right or wrong time to have sex. Its when you both are ready... but before you consider that there are some things you need to think about. You need to get on birth control, always have condoms handy, and have a strong relationship. If your going to participate in adult actions, you need to make adult choices. Like if your having sex and the condom breaks... the not-so-smart thing to do would just to leave it... the adult decision would be to go get the morning after pill. Make sure you are very educated about sex and the consequences before doing it.
I dont think its bad I've been with my guy for over a year and he wants to have sex were both 14 just turned I guess but like I trust him and love him so yeah and yeah I know what you mean about people thinking that you have people at my school think we've done it already but im like we havent and there like suuure and all I do is like I swere to god im a virgin why the hell would I have sex im only 14 im not like that and just lie like that and just say think about it why would I mean I dont want to yet not til like im 17 or something so f**k you if you still think I have but I havent so yeah ok well hope that helped hehe
there is no right time or wrong time to have sex...do it whe your ready...but be ready for the consequence this takes a huge toll psychologicaly and phisicaly...use protection...and remember when your ready.also you dont have to prove anything to anyone so if they dont belive you then ohwell actions speack loder than words...they can think whatever they like.
It is only your business if you had or not sex, so do not care of anybody's opinion. 4-7 month is more than enough to have sex but a little bit later than 14 yo. Only really mature 14 yo girls are eligible for it.
you can't change what people think, you know you haven't and that's all that matters. and the only bad time to have sex is when you're not ready and/or you aren't mature & smart enough.
