What do I do with this relationship?!?!?

well.. here’s the thing, I just got out of the worst relationship I’ve ever had, I got cheated on literally 5 times… and the only benefit of it was I met this other girl and since there was no passion in this other relationship, I fell for this new girl that I met in 2 months and now I’m in love but there’s a lot of problems here. 1) This girl only kind of feels the way I feel, and she’s with someone else but doesn’t really want to be, but it’s still a problem regardless.. 2) That past relationship killed my self esteem completely, I mean I’ve told this girl how I feel to pretty great extents and yet seem to be getting nowhere, why is this do you all think? I already know she loves me, she says it all the time, and it’s more than friend love. No matter what she’s saying it doesn’t seem to bring me out of my depression from the past though.. she says I’m perfect and deserve the perfect girl and things like that.. and she is to me, really she is. 3) finally.. we live far away from each other, not just different towns, different states, about 200 miles apart, and I’m afraid that it wouldn’t be able to last because I can’t get my own car for like another 2 years and I can’t go visit or anything…

well, I’ve laid it all out, now.. any suggestions?