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What do I do my fiances mom hates that im heavy and have tattoos?
My fiance and I have been together for a while and couldnt be happier but his mother is a totally different story. she is your typical barbie doll, marathon running, milf that looks 10 years younger then she really is and wants nothing but the absolute best(by her standards) for her son. our main issue is I have only ben around her a handful of times,not even long enough to have a full conversation, and she thinks I am a bad influance on her son and im bad for him. everytime my sister in law or fiance come home from visiting there mom I hear how she continued to express her dislike for my weight because im 180 instead of 110 ad I have tattoos and piercings. I obviously cant take care of myself quote un quote his mother because im out of shape and overweight. there is no way I could make him happy he must be in a phase. these are the things I hear about and she hasnt even givin me a chance to show her my personality but from what I’ve heard she could be my best friend and still think badly of me in the backof her head because im overweight. I dont know what to do? my man loves me thick. hes a little guy like 140 soaking wet and loves my curves but his mom alwys tells him to leave me. im worried cuse hes a total mamas boy an im not what his family planned and im worried one day the critsizim will make us crazy I just wanna find some wy to possibly make things easier with her
I think you shouldnt worry About her.shes a hater and that shouldnt make you change.the important thing is that your man loves you the way you are and thats it.you didnt get married with the monster in law ,you got married with the man of your dreams.so dont sweat her and her dumb comments.as long as you know your beautiful and your husband can see it.
unfortunantly it sounds like shes pretty stuck up, I doubt she wants to accept you simply because you look different and she doesnt sound like the kind of person who accepts people who look different to what she does or to what shes used to seeing but nonetheless, you can still try to talk to her and tell her that whats on the outside is just that, on the outside and that theres the inside of you that she hasnt gotten to know yet maybe try organising soemthing the two of you could do together and talk about, not about yourself but on the activity your doing something like bowling, ect or maybe something she might be a bit more into that your happy to go along with then just try talking to her and letting her get to know you a bit better
You are not marrying her…you are marrying her son…go for it girl!!!
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