What do I do I still love my ex girlfreind?

6 months ago I asked out a girl I really fancied and we got quite serious. We did everything but sex even though she wanted to but I didnt feel she was emotionally ready. Her mum never really liked me and after about 2 months she started making this very obvious and this really upset my ex. She wasnt trying at school because she wanted to talk to and see me and the only thing she cared about was me. Then two of her friends told me that she liked another guy. Usually I wouldnt have cared because she had liked lots of other guys. But this time I thought it would make her happier to be with him. I dumped her even though I didnt really want to and managed to suppress the depression and started dating another girl. But I wasnt happy even though she was gorgeous because I wanted her to be like my ex. A month after me and my ex broke up I found out that she still loved me and was up everynight crying and so I wanted to ask her out but I was still with the other girl so didnt. But then one day at school my girlfriend was out on a trip and me and my ex were getting on really well and kissed infront of everyone on the bus which ment by the next day everyone knew and I was dumped but my ex wasnt. My problem is I still love her even though that was 3 months aago and I can never sleep and can only think about her. She keeps me holding on by flirting with me and things like that but I need to let go. What could I do to let her go?

Answer #1

hehe, [: thanks fer agreeing wiht me guyss, and talking to her could probally be veryy hard, so if you don’t feel like it, and its just going to make you like her moree, you need to start thinking about what raelly bothers you are her, and in the meantime look for someone else, or concentrate on your girlfriend(I don’t know if your still with that girl or not XD) but if you notice what bothers you about her it helps a lot more. I had a boyfriend. adn he was my everything. like my first boyfriend. he started being a total jerk to me. it took me 2 years but I finally did it. trust me. just listen to your heart, and please don’t forget what I said earlyer.. don’t let go of somthing your afraid of losing. if you are positive you don’t want to be with her, let go. if your not positive then talk to her. good luckkk -DaNi

Answer #2

awwh, I really wish I could help you. you seem so sweet. except fer the bit of cheating you did. XD. and why are you going after somthing that doesnt care]:? your just going to break more. trust me. I know. I’ve been there. its terrible.

Answer #3

thankyou so much for the advice. I have tried the whole focus on bad things but I love everything about her. she knows how I feel about her but she doesnt seem to care :(

Answer #4

I also agree w/ luckieduckie94 Maybe if you feel like it..you could talk to her about it..like how you feel about her and the whole subject

Answer #5

I totally agree with luckieduckie94 it just takes time and space to get over exes. Try talking to her and see how she feels if she feels the same way then maybe you guys should try it again if not then you should move on and try to forget her I know its not that easy trust me I know but you have to try. I really hope that helps.

Answer #6

so being addicted to exes is the worst ever. time and space and trying to find what you don’t like about this girl. never let go of somthing you can’t lose.. lemme know how it goes? x -DaNi

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