What do I do after I saw *secret* pics of my uncle in lingerie??

Recently, I taught my uncle how to take pics with our new webcam. He also asked me how to delete picture and so I did. One thing I forgot to teach him about was the recycle bin. Everything you erase goes straight to the recycle bin. A few days ago, I went to the computer’s recycle bin to erase some of my unwanted trash, I saw pics of him in lingerie! I wasn’t able to believe it because my uncle is very manly. And so, I deleted the pictures because I didn’t want to destroy his relationship with my aunt (they’ve been together for 20 years). Was it a good decision to erase the pics & keep it a secret? Or should I tell my aunt? (but I have deleted my proof.)

Answer #1

Ok so?

Does it mean hes gay or something? Because I havent heard a rule meaning that wearing that means being gay, I’m just saying, meaby his wife does not need to know because she alredy does,

Just leave it alone and that’s that.

Answer #2

There’s no such thing as men’s lingerie. We understand what you meant, and it’s not that unusual. Cross-dressing is very common, even among ‘’manly’’ men, but it IS private. Respect his privacy, be an adult, and keep it to yourself.

Answer #3

It was only him in lingerie, though creepy he wasn’t cheating on your aunt so don’t say anything and yaa try to forget that!!

Answer #4

LOLROTFLLMAS!!! Haha that is sooo funny!! Lol okay, ummm hehe, If you feel the right thing to do is tell your aunt. Do they seem happy together? Is your aunt happy? You have to think about these things. But if they’r both very happy, then what’s the harm? He may secretly be BI, so he could still have romantic feelings for your aunt. I’m sorry but that is so funny, you made my day. So ya, depending on whether you think it would help them both if you told your aunt.

Answer #5

What has cross dressing got to do with his relationship or being ‘manly’ (what does that mean anyway?). For all you know his wife knows about it. Cross dressers are not necessarily gay or have issues with their gender identity if that is where you are going with this.

It is his private life, his private business, respect his privacy and keep out of it. And let him know about the recycle bin please.

Answer #6

Keep it to yourself. He’s a grown man who leads his own life and you shouldn’t interfere with it.

Answer #7

Honestly just keep quiet and dont mention it. Thatd be embaressing for the both of you and it wont do any good bringing it up.

Answer #8

I know that was scary but trust me just let it go. Forget what you saw.

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