What can I do to hang around together I'm so nervous?

This boy I like, he liked me and I think he still does, I’ve known him since september but I only started speaking to him a week ago (over msn) we haven’t spoke in person since ‘cause this place we go to keeps getting cancelled because of the snow. He wants to meet up with me but I’m really scared ‘cause we don’t really know each other, I keep using snow as an excuse but trains are up and running again so I can’t really say that now. I wouldn’t mind meeting up with him for the first time if one of my friends and his friends were there but I don’t wanna ask him that. What should I do??

Answer #1

Hi there well this is my advice:!

I you want meet up with him but have an adult near by mabye not standing right next to you but near enough so that if “anything happens” there will be help near by

I hope you use my advice if you have anymore then please feel free to contact me through funmail

Thanks!

Answer #2

You should ask to go on a double date with one of your friends and one of his friends. Go to a public place so its not as awkward. Make sure to bring your phone and if you get to nervous text a friend to call you and say theres an emergency.

Answer #3

Hey x I have met him before, but we never really got to know each other, or speak propaly. Over msn he’s a very nice person and we’ve gotton to know each other quite well. But just some things he says makes me quite nervous. And I don’t want to ask if he can come to the house because my best friend was talking about him getting into a fight, which wasn’t his fault, because some stupid people in the year above him were being rascist and kicked him so he fighted back and now my mum might disapprove.

Thanks for the advices they are helping me so muchh :D

Answer #4

I agree that IF DO you meet him, go with a friend, tell and adult/parent where you going too, and make sure you can be easily contacted and contact someone else.

Above all meet in a public place, and stay in a public place too. Remember you’ve not met him before. I’m not saying anything bad will happen, but it’s best to be cautious on a first meeting.

Saying that, I would place the responsibility on him to travel to meet you, although what I’ve already said would still apply. It’s really important that everyone knows where you are.

Could you ask your parents if he can come to the house?

Answer #5

hey to stop your self getting to nervous do what I do, just treat him like anyother friend just through in some extra flirting to let him no hes special. bring a friend 4 added support is good but dont lean on her too much or it ll seem ucan t do anything with oout a friend. just relax let him enjoy u. and if worst comes to worse and he doesnt like you that way uv now got a new friend, because that how you treat him :) hope this helps. as 4 your mum, just say your going to the movies with a friend (movies are good as first dates because convs can be hard / awkard) just plan to meet his guy there, and if you bring a friend then “running into “ this guy, was totally fate. but if hes a tough guy who gets into fights just make sure that he never hurts u. but he seem cool soo go 4 it girl hope I helped :)

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