What are some ways to make me happy in school again?

Last year in school I was happy with all my friends and wasn’t a dork and wasn’t popular. Just Average (:. That is how I like it. Now my class consists of two groups: popular and dorks. I have friends in both of those groups but I don’t have any best friends like I always do. I have tried to get to know them but I haven’t really clicked with any of them. Now I feel like a friendless loser, and my self-esteem is at an all time low. I am becoming lazier and sadder, but I do still act like a fit middle school-er. It is too late to switch classes but I am really having troubles. Please help! Any way is appreciated; quotes, motivations, advice, anything! Thanks so much ;)!

Answer #1

if it’s useless to begin a revolution and stop this shit with groups, just decide who are you - dork or popular and begin to communicate with equall.

Answer #2

Is just average really that bad? I get the clique thing, I do, but trying to be something that you’re not just isn’t fair to you and it’ll make you unhappy. Maybe you need some alone time to figure out who you are. Your real friends will accept you for that. Screw everyone else. Seriously, forget them and be who you are. That’s all you need.

Answer #3

Just try to find that very person whom you feel relaxed. And it’s no matter whether he is “dork” or “popular”. It’s your choice and why should you carry about anyone’s opinion. Make them respect both of u

Answer #4

Dont be silly, just be yourself, and everythingS gonna be oookay. Or become an evil scientist, like Gordon Freeman. Gl and Hf.

Answer #5

I’m of the opinion that this very situation concerning to these groups can not prevent you from any relationships. To my mind it’s better to back the neutral position.

Answer #6

Do not take it too close to your heart. I was in such situation and I know that the best way is to ignore them. And I’ve understood that it’s better to have one good friend than many but not trustful.

Answer #7

okay look I get what you mean, I had a similar situation like last year and through a couple conversations and choices I got some friends, and believe me its your choice who you want to be friends with . Whoever seems like they could be a good friend and has all the good qualities you are looking for just start talking to them, switing classes doesnt always necessarily work just open up and see what happens and where things go!

remember that to have a good friend or friends you also have to be one :) “A friend is one of the nicest things you can have, and one of the best things you can be”

Answer #8

Just stick with one group of kids (whoever you think you’ll get along better with) and after a while, you’ll get closer. Starting hanging out with people repeatedly and you’ll eventually be included in the “group.”

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