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Thanks for your support about me facing my rapist

All that read my post know I had court today with my rapist..

Well most went well we had to take a DNA test and when it comes back tomarrow saying he is the father that is just one more charge he has brought upon his self today went ok.. hated being in the same room but out of all of this bullsh*it came some good im talking to my mom again.. we havent spoken since I told her I was pregnant at 14 and its ok I guss kinda feels werid but what evere about that.

the judge is very leanit towards rape victims he actual just asked me to give my statement and point out the person that raped me in a line with like 15 other guys and when he saw me getting to emonital he told me I could step outside of the court room in till I was needed again thank god that made it seem more easier on me.. everything is going well so far only fear really know is when he gets out if I still live in the same town as I do now but I hope to be out of there so I will never have to look into his digusting face again but he is looking toward 10 years know but when it comes back he is the father my lawyer said he could push it to 15 years

Im praying for 15 years he be old and hopefull dies in there

Thanks for all the support and advice

Kate

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Answer #1

you know, you shouldn’t pray he dies. I understand how much you hate him, my uncle was a rapist until he decided to go get help, but he almost raped my sister and I , and I have had some experiences with a guy a few years older who tried to force me into it. so did a boy named donny. but I don’t think god would want you to pray he dies

Answer #2

im sorry I think people that havent been rape wouldnt know the feeling I have towards this guy..

I live in fear ever day of this happening seeing him in the shopping store seeing him and having flashbacks of what happen and then grabbing my sons Edward “his biological son” and my other son anthony and running out the store. I lived like this for 4 years… Becuase of him I got kicked out of my house at 14 because I was pregnant and my mom wouldnt listen to me with what happened to me. I fear everything I wont go out after dark because thats when it happened… but enough about that I just dont see how people would say anything to me about wishing him death…

I think I have ever right to wish him death becuase he made me feel like I was dead to the world sometimes…

there where even times I wished I would of died and tried killing myslef but then I gave birth to my son Edward and becuase of him my life was changed

Answer #3

hey. your very strong for making it thrpugh this and I wish you well with your life and I justed wanted to say that you touched me with being able to do that.

Answer #4

who are you to really say what is right and whats is wrong hummm… I dont think you know me or anything about my situation and I will wish him death every day of my life… He took something that is non-repalceable

Answer #5

no I do pray he dies he took something way from me when I was 14 gave me my wonderful son but it wasnt the way I wanted to have my first son I do pray ever day that he dies and I dont care..

To say what god would want you cant cause you dont know that and you dont kow my full story with this I know what god says my dad was a pastor but god know what is right and wrong and once a rapist always a rapist

Answer #6

u should never wish death on anyone. that makes you as evil as him. god knows what is right and wrong yes. and you wishin people dead is wrong..

Answer #7

I know thats one thing im glade for but still pray he dies in there

Answer #8

good luck ! and I hope he gets what he deserves the b– x

Answer #9

My heart goes out to you but you proven to be a very strong person,I truelly hope he gets his just deserts!!!

Answer #10

Remember if he gest charged and lives to get out.. this will fallow him everywhere he goes.. he can’t excape it

Answer #11

hope everything goes your way! GOOD LUCK!

Answer #12

Its your right to wish him dead!!!That p…k took part of your life and teenage years from you so where I come from its a life for a life,why are some people so self rightious. Good luck with it all.x

Answer #13

I’m sorry you had to go through this. Remember it wasn’t your fault and you’re a very strong woman.

I hope you find justice.

I will be going to court with my rapist in a month and 1/2. I hope it goes as smoothly.

xox Sika

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