Why isn't she more supportive?

long story short: ok, well my friend asked out my crush, he said no. he stares A LOT, I still like him, even though he said a lot of mean stuff to me…but she’s not supportive AT ALL (she slaps me every time I even mention his name)!!! pfft. talk about best friend. arent they SUPPOSED to be supportive? WHAT SHOULD I DO???

Answer #1

I dont think I misunderstood? Like I said, I dont expect my friends to support me if im doing something stupid. Perhaps you want friends who do not feel free to express their genuine feelings about something.

Answer #2

Yeah they are soppost to be soprtive, but not in a case like this. In this case you both should just leave him and look at someone else. What is more important the guy, or your friendship?

Answer #3

Oh, and I didn’t reply to you ladybugzy about this, but, if she slaps you everytime you mention him, that’s not right either. That is someone who you shouldn’t really waste your time with, if she’s not nice.; all and all.

Answer #4

Yeah, honestly I wouldn’t be friends with someone who isn’t supportive in your time of needs… knowing me, I need friends who are there for me, especially in these rough economy times.

Answer #5

all she said before all of this was that she was jealous that someone actually like me…but now all she says is that “he doesn’t flippin like you anymore”

Answer #6

She wants what you want, and no one else can have him except her. You need to think of yourself once in awhile.

Answer #7

ty, ladybugzy is asking a question, applying to her friends. Not her crush. Trust me, a crush is a crush. She’s not wanting to marry the guy. Point is, she wants to know why her friend is not supportive? She says that her friend really isn’t, and basically wants better then her (ladybugzy) em I right? if not, than okay. But if I am, than there you go. You shouldn’t have a friend, that isn’t supportive. Well you can, but not one that your always with, and in time of need.

Answer #8

alright, about to accept it :)

Answer #9

He’s mean to you, he’s rejected you, and you want your best friend to support your bad decision? Sorry, it seems like your friend is the only one who can see things clearly and is trying to make you see reason. Friends are not supposed to blindly support us when we’re doing stupid things. I love how you’re picking this guy over your best friend. How do you know he hasnt said something really mean and she just doesnt want to tell you to spare your feelings? Maybe she knows something about this guy but isnt telling you to protect you. You’re complaining about her. Perhaps you need to view your own behavior as a best friend. If my best friend did something I didnt get, I’d give them the benefit of the doubt and believe that whatever it was, they were looking out for me. But perhaps those are just my friends.

Answer #10

I did add you! :)

Answer #11

Mhm, anytime. Add me if you want too :)

Answer #12

thanks, but I meant that she asked him out 4 me…and she keeps on saying how ugly he is :’(

Answer #13

She’s jealous hun. Has she ever told you she was or anything in that critrea?

Answer #14

Thanks SOOO much :) that really helps :)

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