How weird is it that I don't like most guy things yet I am straight and I also have not much interest in having sex?

I have done that but it doesn’t do much for me and since my wife was looking forward for it to work and get so invested into it I try to fake is working so at least she can enjoy herself but inside I am looking forward for her to finish.

hmmmmmm maybe your into different types of things ? like diferent types of sex? or maybe your self conscience?

there are many things that afftect male and female sex drive.. like mhe said maybe you two are into different things? IE fetishes, bondage, spanking, anal… maybe one likes it old fashioned and one wants it up the butt. there is so many different things out there to try.. have you tried talking to your wife about what she wants and likes and what you want. for example maybe you want to have anal done to you but are too scared to ask your wife to shove a dildo back door.. being self conscience is a huge impact on ones sex life. you shouldnt feel embarassed to talk about sex, communication is the key to good sex. maybe she needs to add a litle foreplay in for you like a strip tease, or maybe give u a nice massage with some hot wax to kick it up a notch?

the other part is maybe its a medical or psychological prob… you said ur doc couldnt find anything. they checked ur esterogen levels too? you could be bored and not even realize it? i know this is way out there but what about talking to your wife about a threesome? maybe you need a big change.. you could def be bored espec if you have been with your wife for awhile , sometimes its too the point that trying new thiings wont help at all, some couples just “fall out of love” sex wise with eachother. that is still not an excuse for leaving a partner because they dont want sex. if your married to someone just for sex then thats just being selfish…

most of this you have prob tried.. but like i said you could be bored and not even think it because you love your wife.. you said youve been to a therapist.. was it a sex therapist or a reg one.. there is a huge different..

and btw the stuff you mentioned you like are guy things :) electronics, cars, working out even shopping..

Talk it out with your lady or let her go find someone who satisfies her- you do not seem too interested.

Sex is not just a physical thing, it is also a mental and emotional process. Lets ask some questions first. How did you fall in love with your wife? does that feeling still exist. or is it just a friendship, not a romance? Does she physicly appeal to you? The last time you were aroused, what made it happen? Was it your wife, porn, some one else? When you first met your wife, or got married, did you have sex often, or did this happen all of a sudden? Think about these questions and answer them truthfully, then you will be on your way to figuring out what the problem is. As for your intrests, everybody is different, just because you dont like sports but you like shopping doesnt mean your any less of a man, that shouldnt matter at all. Third, if your wife is leaving you just because of sex…well thats just plain wrong, marriage shouldnt be about the sex is should be about love and happiness, thats why you two are together. Fourth, try taking her out on a fancy date to a nice restuarant so she can dress up, then when she gets in the car tell her you “forgot” something, but when you go inside set up a nice romantic scene in the bedroom with roses and candles (but dont light them yet!!), make it look lovely. then go out have a good time and when you two get back surprise her with the bedroom and light the candles. now this setting encourages a romantic mood. focus on how good she looks and the look in her eyes, the way her hair is, her curves, just everything that is lovely about her. try a full body massage then sensual forplay, but take your time and this should definately satisfy her needs. and if your comfortable bring toys into the bedroom, bondage, masks, drinks, let your imagination run wild and give yourself in to absolute pleasure.

Some people are different.Sex isn’t everything.I mean does she love you just for sex?Thats strange if she does.& wrong in my opinion.You like cars like other guys and stuff so that is good.I mean are you feeling like a virgin lol?Or does your wife not appeal to you?Maybe your just a kid still inside..just i guess think back to when the last time you guys had sex was and then think what brought that situation on.Maybe your bi.You never know.