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We messed around a little

a few weeks ago, me and my boyfriend were really horny in bed, and.. yeah, if you read any of my other questions, I love sex, but we’re not having it… hes 2 years older then me… and if im not with him forever, at least I plan to be with him for a long time.

but anyways, he wanted to finger me, and I was the first real girlfriend he had… and he was never close to the other 2. but anyways… he fingered me, but.. didnt do anything, we continued to make out.. and his finger was just in me… not doing anything. it didnt feel good. I idnt feel anything… and I dont know what to tell him.. because well… I dont know what to tell him to do… I cant explain it…

should… I just forget him fingering me for the rest of my life or… what?

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Answer #1

It’s perfectly normal to feel a bit awkward for the first time. But since he hasn’t done it before, maybe you could guide his hand to show him what feels good. But the easiest way is to talk to him about it the next time it happens. Chances are, he just wanted to explore your body, and find out about the female anatomy. Let him experiment and feel around. If he still doesn’t know what to do, maybe you can teach him about the layout of a girl, and what feels good, and what doesn’t do anything. He’ll automatically be more confident, and the tension will be released from the air.

If you have any questions, feel free to contact me and I’ll be happy to answer :) Love, Emma.

Answer #2

well you can tell him this but in your own words… hun I want to talk about you fingering me the other day. uhm I dont want to be mean but thats not how you really finger someone and id be happy to show you but yea OR… you can take is hand next time and move it in the motion you want it to go and telll him what to do just till he gets used to it. its like a guy moving a girls hands during a handjob. hope I helped and need further advice fun mail me ~kaitlyn~

Answer #3

lol thats kinda funny. well maybe you should guide him with what to do.. tell him to explore and try new things with what he does when he’s in you.. =) -n.k.w.

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