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Should I call him or tell him to get out of my life?

So I was going out with this great guy named Tanner. It all seemed like it was going fine until we started doing more stuff. Then he stopped calling me as much as he used to and never could/wanted to hang out. He dumped me 2 weeks ago cause I guess I never called him and never wanted to see him witch is really untrue. I always called but he told his brother to tell me he wasn’t home and then he would tell me he had to work on a house. I’m way confused cause I found out after we broke up that he likes my best friend and I don’t want that to ruin things between us. And he also told my friend it would be best if I didn’t call him for a while and that we aren’t going to date again cause he just wants to be friends. My other best friend is dating his twin and every time I see him it reminds me of my ex….Help me… Should iI call him or wait for him to call me…should I stay friends or tell him I don’t want him in my life??? Someone tell me what I should do..

                                                                                           -Sarah

P.s I don’t want to lose him cause the truth is I did it with him my first time and this is the second time he’s wanted to get back with me..but the first time was over the summer for a month and we only m/o and this time it was for 2 months and we went all the way…. :( :( :(

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Answer #1

Well 1st thing I wanna say is bitch you can do better. Im just kidding about the bitch part. But yeah I know what ur going through. And no I cant rly help you out and tell you what u should do cause what ur in right now I hahvent been in where I have had sex wit them ya know…. but yeah I will always be here for you to talk to about it… Then when I go through it I know who will be there for me =) (You) But yeah I just rly think right now you should give it about 2 weeks or 3 and call him and kinda be like so whats going on…? N be like im going to tell you where your coming from. That you would reather be friends wit him than nothing at all… Cause u will always care for him and that he was ur 1st. I know it is hard but I know you can do that… Cause right now you need to know whats going on and thats the only way ur going to find out is by asking him. I know its hard that im dating his twin and im sorry I wish it wasnt and i hope he doesnt turn out to be just like Tanner… But you never know… I heard twins are just alike. Thats what my mom said… N I still love Josh… So im glad ur always here for me when i need to talk about Josh… Thank you. Just give it sometime Sarah. Trust me everything will be alright. I love you.

Answer #2

Sarah– I know this is really hard for you. I know exactly how you feel about everything because it happened to me with Cory. Again I just want you to know that I would never do anything like that to you and all me and him will be is just friends. And I just cant believe how hes treating you. Maybe you guys should just stay friends right now… I know that its hard and you want to be more than friends because you are really in love with him… thats what I had to do even though im still not over it. Just remember you have alot of friends who care about you and try to look on the bright side of things. I know its hard but it will help. I love you Sarah your my best friend and I really hate seeing you like this. –Ashley

Answer #3

Ok at the momment he has made it clear he wants to be friends, and he may have feelings for someone else…your best friend no doubt. So right now to save yourself heartache its best if you do your own thing and not contact him. It sounds like he needs some time to himself to work out how he feels about everything, so give him that time to himself and if he decides he wants more again he will contact you no doubt. Just relax and take some time out for yourself also.

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