What if I'm 13 and want sex?

Well I was with my man like almost a week ago and we were back in a room without any adults…I had my hand down his pants then he put his in mine…he asked if it was okay like a billion times it seemed like…but anyways he fingrd me and it felt really good. im 13 so is that really bad??? We’ve been dating 7 months and are going great…I love him and he says he loves me…anyways of course it made me REALLY horny…and I had my hands around him and was like trying to pull him closer to me but he couldn’t get any closer so he said I can’t get any closer without gettin in…I really am starting to want to have sx with him…What should I do??? I want to but we barely ever are alone and he doen’t get his Licence for like another year and a couple months…and im younger than him so I can’t drive…WHAT DO I DOf???

PLEASE HELP ME

ANYTHING WILL HELP SO ANYONE PLEASE HELP

Please Help Thanx,

youto18

Answer #1

Ok your thirteen and how the hell do you know what love is? I think llewellyn is right you should know a little more about sex before you get your self into anything to serious and yes sex can be serious. If you do decide to have sex make sure you use PROTECTION! Trust me it aint easy being a mama at 13 years old on my perspective you should at least wait a little longer. Your a teenager so your hormones are going crazy but thirteen is a bit young and your just starting out, you’re growing up slow down com’on seriously. If you want the chance of a baby the girl go for it but love is not one of things that you have to be mixed on right now. Sex AND Love uhhh TWO DIFFERENT THINGS lust doesnt always have to be considered as love hey your life your decisions babe. All I can say is

GOOD LUCK!

Answer #2

just saying if you LOVE him you can do it but you want to be protected.

What the hell? Love is not an excuse to be irresponsible and stupid.

Answer #3

YOU NEED TO CONCENTRATE ON GROWING UP AND LIVING LIFE ..DO KID THINGS LIKE SKATING , BOWLING , PLAY CARDS , LISTENN TO MUSIC .. STOP WORRYING ABOUT S*X ..

Answer #4

ok i think you should wait but thats my opinion and how old is this guy 15?? but the best thing to do is wait cuz just think of the long run what if you get an STD or you get prego.thats not good. well

welcome

me

Answer #5

my advice is go to your schools sex ed teacher and ask if you can use that doll that is like a real baby see if you can keep it for like a week and after a week see what your grade is and think about if thats what you want to do full time before you decide to have sex ask your boyfriend to do the same cause if you get pregnant it’s just as much his responsability as it is yours

Answer #6

Before having sex you have to:

-Know about reproductive anatomy -Know about your birth control options -Have at least one form of birth control that you know how to use -Know about STDs and how they are transmitted -Have a plan for what you would do if you did get pregnant (birth control is not 100% effective) -Feel comfortable talking to your partner about all of this -Be able to see an ob-gyn every year (all girls have to start seeing an ob-gyn once they become sexually active)

So if you two don’t drive, you could not have sex unless you have a reliable and safe way to get to the ob-gyn for your paps and for birth control.

Answer #7

i would wait.. it leaves you with a lot more options later… i know a girl who lost her virginity when she was 13 and now she has 2 kids and shes 16… not saying this will hapen to you but now thats all she has time for… dosen’t go out has a loser guy shes tied to for the next 20 years… not good… just think to yourself… do you really want this dude to have the privilage of experiencing your body???

Answer #8

ok, i’m 15 and i lost your virginity when i was 13 to a guy my age, who i’d been dating for a year (at the time, we ended up dating 3 years). and i completely regret it. i mean, this guy “loved” me and even proposed to me, ring and all, but i’m telling you from experiance that i don’t think you should do it. plus, this summer, one of my best friends who is regularly on birth control got preganant. so, my advice is if you want to, stick to oral and hand jobs, and save sex for later on in life. because you don’t want to feel like i did once it was all over.

hope everything works out. :]

Answer #9

just saying if you LOVE him you can do it but you want to be protected. birth control condom. Just make sure your both ready.

Answer #10

i think you should go for it i mean he said he loves you and you love him then do it

Answer #11

how old is the guy!?

Answer #12

You are not really old enough. Wait at least 4-5 years. This is for your best.

Answer #13

i think it is fine i had it for my 13 bday. Just use a condom so you dont end up pregnant.

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