Almost 3 months pregnant and I'm 15

Just suck it up and tell her. If you’re mature enough to have sex and be a mummy then you have to be adult enough to tell her what’s going on. Get it over with and just tell her. What is the worst she can do besides rant and rave till she gets over it.

no, the age diffence is too little. he wont get locked up. but if it was a 19 year old and a 13 year old they would care but besides that your fine

Uh yeah he can get locked up and very well he should be locked up.

And he will be labeled a sex offender for the rest of his life.

For the fact that you just had to have sex with him.

What did you think would happen? you think that no one was going to find out? You think that when it stretches on down the road your mother isn’t going 2 know you are pregnant?

Your Boyfriend is going to go to jail for 3 years for being a pedophile. That is what they call adults who have sex with minors. He will live with that title for the rest of his life.

It is life really. Reality hits you that hard. There is really nothing positive about this hon. You have to understand that YOU made this mistake but HE is going to pay for it.

I hope you can live with your decision of having sex knowing that you condemned the one you love.

I hope you have a job that pays at least 9 dollars an hour and you can put in more than forty hours a week trying to support that baby and find time to sleep and take care of yourself and all the needs that your little one is going to need and find time to relax and study and be a good mother and everything. because if you can’t its best to put your baby up for adoption. If you can’t take care of that kid that is as good as neglectful abuse in the eyes of CPS and they will take it. So you better get your act together KID.

your boyfriend wont get in trouble if no one presses charges. I had to tell my dad I was pregnant when I was young it was the most hardest thing but I did it so I know how hard it is. but you have to remember she will see it as her baby having a baby so cant be angry with you for long. and anyhow she might enjoy doin the baby thing again and being able to give it back at the end of the day

Here’s the law for New York (your profile says you’re in NY) http://wings.buffalo.edu/law/bclc/web/NewYork/ny3(a)(1)-.htm#130.25 jp22fb is right - Although the age of consent is 17, your boyfriend has an ‘affirmative defense’ because he is younger than 21, and you were not more than 4 years younger than him. The age difference is not enough to get him in trouble.

I don’t know what your beliefs about such things are, but in your situation I would look at abortion or adoption - babies are really hard to look after, and if you don’t have the support of your family, you’ll have a hard time doing a good job. (It’s nothing about you - it’s just that parenting is one of the hardest and most important things ever!)

Abortion, love. Doctors can’t tell your parents about it.