What should I do if it turns out I'm pregnant?

My boyfriend and I had sex abou 1 month ago, and I am afraid that I am pregant. I am currently having all of the signs of being pregnant but I am only going to get tested in a couple of days, I am afraid of what to do as I am only 14 years old, and I was wodering if you could help me think of what to do if I do you know end up pregnant, I don’t think this is a good question, but I need help, and I am afraid. I can’t sleep, eat, or think at all anyways please reply as soon as possible, thank you!

Unsure, and Afraid P.S Can you help, please?

Answer #1

Dear Key,

This is a problem that is really hard to help you fix via funadvice. If you have anyone around you that you can talk to and trust, for example, a teacher, or a guidence counselor etc.. try and let out your thoughts to them. Try not and be scared, this happens all the time…Don’t get down on yourself…Most people do what you did only they just so happened not to get pregnant. If you have a mother or father that you can turn to go ahead and lean on them. If you don’t feel ready to raise a child you could put it up for adoption and not only give the baby a secure loving home but you will give the oppourtunity to a married couple to be loving parents…This is not the end of the world for you…If you are not ready to be a parent, don’t con yourself into it. This way of life in alot of cases is a dead end for you AND the kid. Sorry I could not be more help. You can funmail me anytime…OK?? Good-luck. Familycoach

Answer #2

I think you should have the child and put it up for adoption. Abortion is probley the last choice, especially when you can avoide it. So, if you have the help and support around you, then you should have the baby.

Answer #3

i agree with her! you need to know what is going on! a mother myself i know how scary it can be. did you use any protection? the best thing to do is to get a test i know it is scary but you need to know! so good luck and if you have any questions feel free to contact me!

Answer #4

Would ppl on this site stop judging the ppl that ask for help, they don’t come here to be judged, they come here for help and advice, dang!!!

Answer #5

I lost my virginity at 15, 3 months before my 16th birthday, and I’m doing just fine. I am a prominent student of one of the finest universities in Jamaica where I’m currently pursing my nursing studies. And I don’t think I lost my virginity at a young age considering the times of 2day. I just think that you should be mature enough to take on such a huge step as sex and also prepare yourself for the consequences that may follow

Answer #6

Hi..I’m sorry you feel so afraid but there is nothing you can do until you know wats happening, if you are due for your period and havent got it yet then there may be a chance you are pregnant. How long are you overdue in your period? and wat symptoms are you experiencing?

Answer #7

You’re 13 years old!! Your worst worry should be what time the mall closes. Not if you’re pregnant!! You should’ve seen this coming. You’re WAY WAY too young.

I don’t see why you gave your virginity up SO young. It’s the most valuable thing you had. Take a pregnancy test and find out if you’re pregnant. And then please let us know if you are.

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