What can I do to save our friendship?

Me and my friend have been going through problems. She says I’ve been a bad friend and I say she’s been a bad friend. One example is I was getting picked on and so she walks over and instead of defending me she insults me, even worse her insults were worst. When someone was bullying her I told the person to stop and it worked. This goes on for while and it’s like something bad happens to me and she makes fun with things like midget, loser, and trash. And so after I called her on it she gets mad and tells the teacher I insulted her.

Answer #1

Stop being friends with her? if she really is that bad of a friend. Of course, I haven’t heard her side. If anything ask her why she does those things instead of just accusing each other of being bad friends.

Answer #2

I think the best way to sort this out is to go to a quiet place with her, maybe the back of the school field at lunch or a park bench or empty classroom and just tell her that you don’t like fighting with her, you still want to be friends but don’t appreciate the insults, and give her a chance to tell her side. If she’s still being immature about it then you have the choice to stop being friends with her. You don’t need people like that in your life.

Answer #3

Stop being friends with her because if she was a real friend she wouldn’t allow those things to happen no body deserves to be treated like that especially by a friend…one thing I learned about relationships regardless to what kind if the other person is putting in just as much as you are it’s not worth it every relationship is supposed to be 50/50.

Answer #4

She actually TELLS on you? Omg.. lol I’m sorry but that doesn’t sound like a friend to me. I mean, the calling you names part could be understood if she was just joking around, and the whole not defending you I could maybe get if she’s shy or passive or whatever, but actually telling on you to a teacher sounds so ridiculous to me. Has she always been this way to you, or just lately? I would talk to her about everything & see where that leads you guys. If things don’t change after you talk, you’ll have to make a decision whether this is a kind of friend you want.

Answer #5

your thirteen dude, its time to drop her , grow up and get new friends, and if someone bullies you, please defend yourself. dont count on others to help you bc most likely they wont and that leads to depression, and thoughts of killing, and cutting etc… but anyways back to the topic, drop her now! tell her how much of a bad friend she has been, and dont let her say a word, if she is about to say something cut her off, and when your done, walk away. you will feel accomplished! :D i know your thinking “that imature” yeah well who cares.

Answer #6

if you WANT to SAVE your friendship, then talk to her and try to fix things, but if you just want it to stop then drop her.

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