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Will this ruin our friendship?

I have a HUGE crush on my guy friend , and he was starting to warm up to me until my friend came along and she stole him from me , and she KNEW I liked him , and now he likes HER ! , but he can’t choose between me or her ! he told me he’d go out with me , but he’s scared he’ll do something stupid and I’ll break up with him and I won’t be his friend anymore , and him and me are REALLY good friends , do you think it’ll ruin our friendship ? help PLEASE !

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Answer #1

No catfights over boys, please. Friends come first.

  1. Your guy friend already chose your girl friend (at least from what I understand). He’s taken, end of story.

  2. Your guy friend must have been brainwashed by all those TV dramas. Even if he’s not taken, he’s not ready for a serious relationship. So leave him alone.

In the meantime, sit back, relax, and enjoy your friendship with both of your guy friend and your girl friend. You’ll get over him, you’ll stop being angry at her, you’ll find someone else to have a crush on, and life will go on.

Answer #2

i forgot to tell you , my bff only likes him because I DO and she hugs me and tells me ‘’ i’m sorry … THAT HE IiKES ME BETTER ! ‘’

Answer #3

If you are clever enough you may save your friendship, and even you may be in an other type relationship too.

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