too much drama for my judgement.

My friend jake went out with a girl named sarah a year and a half ago but never really got over her. I liked her if not loved her only a year ago, but refrained from acting at all on it because I knew it would hurt my best friend jake. So I barely talked at all to sarah for almost a year. I thought if I did this I could start talking to her later once my best friend was totally over her. Now, a year later, I started talking to her again and we both started liking each other. My friend jake didn’t really know. It was all going as planned until jake randomly went to her house and asked her out, without any notification to me or her and without talking to her much for almost a year, they even went to different schools. This drastically screwed me over, because it is now clear that he is still not over her. I hungout alone with sarah four days ago and kissed her, but jake doesn’t know. I want to tell him somehow but now that he asked her out I dont know how I can. I recently asked him if he was over her, and he said, I dunno, I guess I am but I don’t know. that kind of sounds like a yes. what do I do?! I have a date with sarah in five days. I postponed it so I could talk to jake, but I don’t know what to say. what do I do?!

Answer #1

you should tell your friend because if he is your best friend like you say then he will have nothing against tell him it just kinda happend. if he is with the girl now shurly you shouldnt be going on a date with her because he is your friend and if he finds out your doin that wile there together it will cause some problems. maybe you should tell him that you like her x

Answer #2

X_X you are in a sucky position dude he is going 2 have 2 no the longer you wait the madder he will b because you will have been going out 4 a long time without him knowing anything! THAT is messed up what isnt is you just telling him and let him know your REALLY sry BUT you do like her a lot and I am sry 2 say (n I am hoping I will b wrong but …) there is a very low chance of someone not getting hurt by the end of this

Answer #3

the best way to tell him is to simply say you’ve liked her for a long time, but you ignored it while they were going out. now that they are no longer going out, you cant ignore the fact that you like her. ask him if he would still be your friend if you went out with his ex.

I hope that this all works out!!! :)

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