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im naturally skinny, and have wide hips that stick out. I also lack a chest. I feel inadiquate. I dont feel I will ever be ready to get naked with a guy. I know when im with someone I love they will accept me no matter what, but what about fun. when im older will I miss out on the funner side of it all? I feel comfortable walking around in just underwear around my best friend and people I know…but…its hard to explain. nevermind, thanks.

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Answer #1

Let me start by saying consider yourself lucky, some of us struggle constantly with fat and big boobs are just a backache on the way. If you are confident in yourself what others will see and be attracted to is the inner beauty which far outweighs the outside in the long run, its a fact all beauty fades and life is short no matter how you look at it, dont be soconcerned with what others have on their minds they either except you or they dont either way be proud of who you are and if you want to get naked with some guy then he should consider himself lucky because you chose him, be confident in yourself, besides all he is after at first sight is a chance in the sack, you decide what happens from there personally I would wait sex is easy its lasting love that`s so hard to get. See Ya Don

Answer #2

it doesnt matter wat u look like just as long as your happy with what god gave u and u should really because your not fat so u cant be depressed about that so like ya u should always just practice being naked and not look in a mirror it will make you more happy

Answer #3

Naturally skinny…..hmmmmmmmm….. you should be THRILLED. Whenever you get ready to be with a guy sexually, then he will already know you’re thin and he won’t care if you wait until you find someone who loves you for who you are. My best friend has the body of a 12 year old boy ( skinny as a rail and extremely flat chested) but she has guys falling at her feet because of her personality. She has loads of fun and is into a lot of sports and activities that heavier people could never do. Try finding a few more interests and not worrying about your weight or looks but concentrate on who you are INSIDE and how you treat other people.

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