Self concious about getting fingered

So I’ve been hooking up with a guy and he’s tried to finger me but I won’t let him because I’m self concious about my “lips” because they’re kinda big and uneven and I was just wondering what guys think about that kind of thing and if they care or anything.

Answer #1

Wait until you’re ready to do it.. not just because he’s ready. Most women have different size like mandyloo said. No vagina will be perfect. haha.

Answer #2

Almost all women’s labia’s are different sizes. Some are more noticable than others. I wouldn’t worry about it, most likely he won’t even notice. Just relex, you wont have any fun if you worrying about your body all the time.

Answer #3

Why dont you find a guy/boy you really want to be in a relationship with instead of “hooking up” with one? Unless you like being used, because thats what hook ups are all about…being easy with no strings attached!

Answer #4

It’s completely normal. Mine are too don’t worry.

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