to young to be fingered?

im like you sweetie. I am mature for my age. I am 16 almost 17 and I act 20 or 21. I dont think its slutty of you. I htink its ok just dont ahve sex

well if your dating a guy and you both love eachother no its not to young I think I was 14 or 15 when I first got fingered :P

You may THINK you are mature for your age, but in reality a 14 yr old doesnt have much LIFE experience! Maturity is more than a developed body. The fact that you allow youself to be USED by a boy your not even in a commited relationship with, only goes to show your level of maturity. Girls today treat fingering like kissing. I think it sends the wrong message to the boy…how can he not think of you as “easy”. Hes getting what a lot of boys have to be in a relationship to get!

Hey sweety… I tottally understand…I personally havnt ever been fingered.(still virgin too) and im 17 in a month and 2 days…but I dont think thats slutty or too young…as long as you feel its right…and you’re able to say no …and of course tust your man… I decided I wanted to hang back and know about the culture of datong before I ever dated…so there’s nothing called too young as long as you’re mature…hope I’ve helped…

ok im a 17 year old male. the thing with us is we do anything do do with sex fingering or getting some oral ourselves than we think bout sex, and boys around the age of 14-17 even 20 sumtimes once we have sex its all we think about and it ruins thing with the girls we say wer inlove with at 14 id say don’t bother getting emotional attached to anyone couse we are always going to look for easyier girls than the 1 we have

Oh…and I wont have sex. I plan on waiting till im marrie. its extreme and may not happen but thats the plan sex will not happen anytime soon everyone knows that about me

The only real problem I see with letting a guy finger you is that you might go too far. I don’t doubt at all that you are mature for your age, mentally. You’re still in that physically maturing phase where your hormones go wild quite easily. If you are able to keep from going any further than that easily it’s not too bad, but it could be hard for you. Getting fingered is a step towards true intercourse. You’ll start enjoying that feeling and before you know it you may be wondering what the real thing is like. While you try to resist, you might not be able to.

One more thing… It will really turn the guy on and he will be wanting something in return, so if you really want to do this, you should be prepared to return the favor with a HJ or BJ…

You really shouldn’t be doing these things with a guy you have no interest in a relationship with. You should only share your sexuality with someone who loves you, not your body.