I'm too shy

lol ok am like that I have always been just like you I would never talk in school only to the few friends I had and I am relli srry I dont know what to say because I am the same way but just try making some friends and try acting like you do when you are not in school be yourself good luck!

First of all, YOUR NOT SUPPOSED TO HAVE A BOYFRIEND, YOUR ONLY 13. Now on the shyness, find people that have the same interests. When there is a common interest involved shyness melts away. Even when your dealing with other people that don’t seem to have common interests try to find something they like or are interested in that you can relate to. Also, love gets rid of fear. When you are dealing with people to help them and improve them in some way and not thinking about yourself at all, fear also begins to disappear. lol There are people that aren’t shy that don’t think about other people very much, but if you ARE shy, it helps to do that.

ok joining stuff happens 2 help A LOT. I had 2 do this program at UCI in california and there are always more friendly people than you who come up 2 you and ask 2 be your friend. and like nicole said, change things up. people mite share some interests you mite show them your interested in. maybe new clothes or hairstyles. that cud earn you some compliments and convo starters.

I am 14 and never had a boyfriend. but thats because im afraid 2 be more intimate. thats a whole other story.

make a little change, your hair, your, style anything. join a club or a sport, take a class that your not sure of, but stay true to your self in the process,and dont give into peer pressure. im pretty much the same as you, im a girl , 13,never dated anyone at well not scince 2nd grade, I dont know about you but im going in 7th, im shy, and the only reasons why people know me is for the last bizilion years I’ve always been the tallest, and I only have one true friend and our 9th friendship aniversy is I a few weeks,but now this year I dyed my hair and worked out and theres defenalently a difference and im joining volleyball so I can meet some people, oh and my school has like 500- so yeah… I dont know why I said all that but I hope it helps!!! : P

I know exactly how you feel. I am the same way, but I am 17 and I never talk and have never had a boyfriend.just dont even bother with it. if they dont want to talk to you, then dont think twice about wanting to talk to them. I am also loud around the few people I know. if you think it is getting worse, see a doctor and ask about Social Anxiety, this is waht I have. there is help for it and its easy to get. Good luck

I am now 16 years old. I was aloner until now. I didn’t really do much it all just sort of happened. I just commented on how so cool a girls drawing was and then we started talking and now we are really good friends. About the boyfriend thing I didn’t get mine until this year. And guess what I had changed nothing about me. He ended up coming up to me. He had never had a girl friend either he was very shy and so dorkyI loved it and he loved me. We have been going out for about a year now. Have fun with the few friends you have. Don’t give up hope. Sooner or later. You find what your looking for or maybe it may find you. Good luck.

thank you for giveing me notice rhinestone bullets!!!

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