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What should I do if the guy I'm dating is shy?

Well, so I’m fifteen still a virgin. Buuut, I have been fingered &also given head. But, that was to my ex boyfriend. Well now, I want to be eaten out really badly, &my boyfriend is preety shy. So it’d be awkward to ask him. But then there’s other guy who is a little more experienced &I think I can get what I need from himm, he’s offered a few times to eat me. But I really like my boyfriend. What do I do? I neeed some advice, now (:

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Answer #1

The person I feel sorry for is you, if you are that dependent on your sexual urges that you would break up with a really nice guy, just to get your pussy eaten. Be honest with him, ask him if he’s ready to go that far, get a little more active when you’re making out with him, and he’ll probably get the point.

It could just be that instead of being “shy,” maybe he actually has some morals (which you don’t seem to have), and he’s not ready to start getting that sexually active yet at just 15. Maybe you should try to be more like him and let the sex wait.

Answer #2

If you decide to get that other guy to eat you out, then you should at least have the courtesy to break up with your boyfriend, which I gotta say isn’t fair on him just cause he is shy.

If you really want him to eat you out, try flirt some with him and try and seduce him. Most guys aren’t hard to get just a little excited. I assume that your boyfriend is a virgin, and that could also be some of the reason why he is shy. Maybe if you sleep with him he’d get more confidence and be less shy. If you get your boyfriend to have sex with you, but he isn’t experienced enough to please you very much, then help him out. Teach him or tell him what you like.

I’d feel really sorry for your boyfriend if you should choose someone else, only because they have had a little more sex experience.

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