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Too fast and need to slow down

Ight here is the deal. Im 16 and my girl friend and I just started to get sexually active(fingering, hand jobs, etc). I dont know if I’m ready for it. The main problem is that im very sexually charged and we dont see each other out side of school much and everytime we do its not exactly PG. How do I turn it down a notch and only let it happen every now and then? please help…

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Answer #1

You need to talk to her. Communication is key in any relationship. If you can talk to her about this, you will be able to talk to her about anything. If you are nice, and explain yourself and your feelings she will understand you, and it will also help her open up to you.

Answer #2

thanx a lot (=

Answer #3

Ok don’t lie just tell her the simple truth that you don’t feel ready to go to fast! And explain to her .. Just say you still want to be in the relationship but you want to take things much slower.

Hope I helped =]

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